God's Not Done With Us

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About This Episode If you are a Christian, then you are being sanctified. But what does that mean, why does it need to happen, and what might it look like? In this episode we discuss how the Lord sanctifies us because He loves us, often using our spouse, our friends, and our circumstances to draw sin out of us. We share a snarky moment over coffee on our new leather couch and the day a friend told Aaron he needed to stop talking to his wife like that. We talk about humility, true repentance, shame versus condemnation, and why we shouldn't play Holy Spirit to our spouse. He's not done with us, and He's not done with you.

About Aaron & Jennifer Smith Aaron and Jennifer Smith are the founders of Marriage After God and authors of Husband After God, Wife After God, and Marriage After God. Married since 2007 and raising six children in Bend, Oregon, they started Husband Revolution and Unveiled Wife to share what God was teaching them, not from a place of having it figured out, but as fellow travelers pointing couples back to Jesus.

In This Episode The leather couch story — a snarky question over coffee and what came next What sanctification is — God patiently drawing sin out of us because He loves us Friends who speak up — the car conversation that changed how Aaron talks to Jennifer Humility and true repentance — owning sin instead of minimizing it Shame vs. condemnation — resting in Romans 8:1 Don't play Holy Spirit — letting God do the convicting in your spouse Lazarus — Christ calls us out alive, but people help unwrap us

Scripture Referenced Romans 8:1

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