Q & A - Not Seeing Eye To Eye In Marriage

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About This Episode Couples have been not seeing eye to eye since the very beginning. In this Q&A episode, Aaron and Jennifer Smith open with Ephesians 4:1-3, a call to walk with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Then they answer questions from the community: how to become more selfless in marriage, how to live for God together when your spouse has never really been to church, how to communicate through disagreement, what to do about conflicting hobbies, how to keep chasing the dreams God has called you to when your spouse is in a negative place, and how trust is rebuilt after pornography. They close with their number one advice for couples who are struggling.

About Aaron & Jennifer Smith Aaron and Jennifer Smith are the founders of Marriage After God and authors of Husband After God, Wife After God, and Marriage After God. Married since 2007 and raising six children in Bend, Oregon, they started Husband Revolution and Unveiled Wife to share what God was teaching them, not from a place of having it figured out, but as fellow travelers pointing couples back to Jesus.

In This Episode Unity in the Spirit — Ephesians 4:1-3 as the foundation for couples who disagree Becoming more selfless — the antidote to selfishness is serving your spouse Giving what you want to receive — the Golden Rule and Luke 6:34-36 When your spouse doesn't follow God — how your walk with Christ can influence them Communicating through disagreement — be slow to speak, quick to listen, and watch for misunderstanding Disagreements about hobbies — wrapping every decision in wisdom and supporting what fuels each other Chasing God's call with a struggling spouse — why ministry starts at home Rebuilding trust after pornography — confession, repentance, humility, and time Number one advice — humility, prayer, and living in biblical community

Scripture Referenced Ephesians 4:1-3 Luke 6:34-36 Luke 14:11

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