Building a Healthy Marriage - Interview with Scott & Kristen Kedersha

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About This Episode Scott and Kristen Kedersha did not start with a healthy relationship. They met as student and teacher in physical therapy, and their first season of dating was unhealthy enough that it had to end before God could do something new. In this conversation with Aaron, they share how that ending became the beginning of a Christ-centered marriage that now impacts thousands of couples through their ministry. After 23 years of marriage and raising four boys, they talk honestly about the role of community in helping couples choose wisely, the importance of quick confession and repentance, how to stay authentic while leading others, and why focusing on your kids never has to mean neglecting your marriage. Whether you are dating, newly married, raising children, or approaching an empty nest, their story offers hope.

About Scott & Kristen Kedersha Scott and Kristen Kedersha lead marriage ministry at Harris Creek Baptist Church. Married for 23 years and parents of four boys, they share their story and wisdom through their podcast, More Than Roommates, and through the books Ready or Knot and the Ready or Knot Prayer Guide, helping couples prepare for and pursue a marriage that honors God.

In This Episode Student and teacher — How Scott and Kristen's relationship began in a physical therapy setting. An ending that had to happen — Why their first dating relationship had to end before true transformation could begin. The power of community — How trusted people help couples make wise relationship choices. Authentic leadership — Staying honest about your own marriage while leading others in marriage ministry. Quick confession — Why confession and repentance need to happen fast in marriage. Kids and marriage — Why focusing on your children doesn't mean neglecting your spouse. Raising kids who seek counsel — The hope of children who still want your wisdom as they grow. Christ first — How pursuing Jesus individually leads to a stronger marriage together.

Resources from This Episode More Than Roommates podcast Ready or Knot Ready or Knot Prayer Guide Shop Marriage After God resources Full show notes and blog post

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