7 Words Every Spouse Needs to Hear

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About This Episode Communication is the bedrock of a thriving marriage, and few things shape it more than the words we choose. In this episode, we open our hearts and share personal stories, including the challenges we faced when words were misused and the joy of rediscovering our harmony. We walk through seven words every spouse needs to hear, phrases that are simple but form the foundation of trust, understanding and love. Whether it is affirming that your spouse is not your enemy, expressing unconditional support, or extending forgiveness, each one is a stepping stone to deeper intimacy and unity. We also talk about the anticipation and differences of our current pregnancy and what God has been teaching our family through Bible study at home.

About Aaron & Jennifer Smith Aaron and Jennifer Smith are the founders of Marriage After God and authors of Husband After God, Wife After God, and Marriage After God. Married since 2007 and raising six children in Bend, Oregon, they started Husband Revolution and Unveiled Wife to share what God was teaching them, not from a place of having it figured out, but as fellow travelers pointing couples back to Jesus.

In This Episode The impact of words in marriage — Why the words spouses speak to each other shape trust and connection. A personal confession — Jennifer opens up with a personal confession about words in marriage. Positive affirmation — Why speaking encouragement to your spouse matters. Seven phrases for a stronger marriage — Simple words that build trust, understanding and love. You are not my enemy — Reminding each other that you are on the same team. Support and forgiveness — How unconditional support and forgiveness lead to deeper intimacy. Pregnancy and a growing family — Navigating anticipation and differences with grace. Family Bible study — Spiritual insights from time in the Word with our kids.

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